um, yeah…

So, I have never actually identified as a bear. Most folks know this. I have enjoyed them a good bit through my adult life. I have even enjoyed a good number of bear events, including as recent as a big gay bear prom just a week or so ago… That said, I had an odd […]

take it as you will

Back when I was thirteen years old, a full six years before understanding that I was gay, I knew that I had no interest in – or business being – a parent. It is easily one of things that helps to demonstrate how fully conscious of the world I was at an early age. You […]

I must be missing something…

Found in a profile, at a particular cruising site: Love seeing a masculine male bitch beg for cock. *sigh* I think I should lie down, my head hurts…

the glitter, it burns

I occasionally wonder of the source of my distaste and poor response to silly little gay boys when I encounter them in the bars. I do consider whether my response is bigotry of some sort or some sensible response to as-yet unknown data. Then, most often, I am vindicated. Take last night for an example: […]

turbans. I want to talk to you about turbans

… to be specific, wind turbans. Yes, I said wind turbans. I am quite certain that I just listened to a program on NPR on the way home that was discussing green energy options and a major focus was on wind turbans. The first mention caught my mind right out of its typical driving mode […]

Protected: no, really – WTF?

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Protected: is it just me…?

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question for the peeps…

Q: Why do helpless people always insist on entering the self-check-out aisles…? As witnessed in Costco today (Yes, yes. I know! Costco on Saturday equals a big fat NO! I have learned my lesson…): 1. Um, yes, really, you cannot start you transaction without your Costco membership card. Um, when have you ever been able to […]

Protected: file under: safe sex – always

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Protected: wishing the peeps would finally start thinking things through…

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